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In this article we are going to describe how dangerous Self is. It is a practice that you either don’t want to play with, or let your partner do oneself.

Self. Is it dangerous or not?

Self. Is it dangerous or not?
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Self must be characterized as a true root of evil in BDSM. The worst effect is done to the selfing person oneself. Even Spanking that proves to be quite secure practice for newbies (we don’t talk about some super techniques) can do a lot of harm to person. Self-bondage is quite dangerous too. It becomes even worse, when Sub can’t be checked by someone else after a certain period of time (at least another Sub). The worst situations occur during the knifeplay, scarfing, where Subspace doesn’t allow a person to control the whole situation around him. The outcome for such a scene may be brutal.

If your Sub “selfs”

Think about the situation and try to understand how to help him/her. This fact can’t be ignored and banning it won’t lead to no good. Sub will start to hide this practice from you that will lead to dramatic consequences. Both for him and your relationships.

BDSM is a culture, in which deviants work together to reach pleasure. The keyword here is “Together”. Self may be an interesting addition to the main composition similarly to masturbation. But doing it a lot may create a bad habit and, moreover, impossibility to have real sexual life with your partner.

We come to BDSM to sublimate our aggression, realize phantasies, but not to destroy ourselves further and further.

Many people may say that we are wrong. But there is a high risk of hurting oneself. Therefore, there are more danger than pleasure. That is why Self isn’t worth your attention.

2017-09-20

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