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How can a Lady use her feminine powers to become Domme in BDSM? We are going to give you some tips on this topic in this article.

Raise your voice

Raise your voice
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The art of Discipline lies in your intelligence and Voice. Words are the natural aphrodisiacs. If you find a proper word, you may get you Submissive red-hot, shivering, and waiting for punishment.

The orders you make are the introduction to whatever practice you do. They are both a strong basis for the start and the power-up during the play.

Remember, your voice is the strongest tool of yours. Don’t try to sound like Johnny Depp, just take it slower, make every order accurate, make meaning, not noise.

“I control you with the slightest touch, with the warmth of my breath. You deliver pleasure to me by carrying out my orders. Your skin is melting under my fingertips.”

Even the strongest of men will fall to their knees before a sexy Domme. The power of intonation, no matter how loud do you pronounce words make person lose control of oneself.

Your words are both the medicine and the bastinado. They hurt and heal, order and please.

Raise your voice: Brutal princess1. Brutal princess

Relax and breath. We both know that you behave better, when these handcuffs are on. You lose your resistance and become a better Submissive.”

The illusion of power is tempting, powerful, and beautiful. It is a mind-play, where one person creates a world in which the second person dives in. In this world Dominant uses his physical and mental powers to lead Submissive to Subspace the highest peak of pleasure in BDSM.

“Discipline is the purge that lets you get cleaner after the deeds you’ve done. It is a gift you must be thankful for. Now bow down and wait for me to touch you. IMMEDIATELY.”

Be a Goddess Domme for your Man

Godlike Domination is a variation of Master-slave game, where your man becomes an Erotic Slave, whose range of responsibilities goes far beyond the basic level.

An Erotic Slave can’t exist without you, namely his Mistress. Being a servant he fulfils each and every dream of yours and gets pleasure for this. As soon as he receives an honor to be your Sub, he has a single duty. To serve you courageously, bravely, and selflessly.

Let him prove he is worthy

You can make some tests for him to understand that he’s able to serve you well. You can include both home and sexual tasks. Check his abilities to look after house, clean rooms, and cook. Then come to sex where he will need to foresee your movements, actions, and thoughts.

Raise your voice: Strength in mind2. Strength in mind

This way, you will be able to see clearly, whether he can deliver pleasure on a long-term basis without looking for “fun” for oneself. That he can be controlled and permitted for getting pleasure when you want it yourself. Listen to him, but take all decisions yourself as you are the Boss here.

Collar Ceremony

As soon as he proved himself worthy, you need to preside a Collar Ceremony. It will be a starting point of your Godlike Domination. From now the collar shows the status Submissive, the fact that he belongs to its owner.

Choose a proper collar in one of Domestic sexshops or on the Internet. It will

remind Bot of his role every day. You pushed him to a new level: from an ordinary worthless Slave to a Servant. Must he never forget of such an honor.

After you have put collar on, you may tell him about the rules he’ll need to obey and requirements he will need to fulfill to continue being your Slave.

For example, the following actions need to be performed in a specific manner:

  • Looking at you;
  • Standing on the knees.

Calling you (names, nicknames, statuses);

You may also prohibit him from busting when he masturbates. Or do facesitting during this process and getting pleasure from his tongue.

Make him all yours

You may also show your Domination by choosing clothes and accessories for him. Some Dommes make Sub wearing a ring with engraving like “Erotic Slave”, “I’m who brings pleasure”, or Semper Praesentialiter (“At your Service” in Latin.)

He must always follow your instructions regarding dresses, putting some emphasis on BDSM-accessories like erection rings or girdles of chastity.

Discipline

You have rights to teach your Sub in the way you want. If he does something wrong, he must fall on his knees, convince his crime against you, and try to change the situation for the better. Whatever punishment he has, he must go through it silently. If you want it this way, of course.

Raise your voice: The woman to die for3. The woman to die for

What discipline types do you need to look at?

  • Ejaculation control: Ban him from ejaculation, when you masturbate him and then lead him to an orgasm. Then you can punish him for disobedience. Usually it is 2-3 spanks for every time penis spewed semen. Or you may consider the amount of it and prepare another punishment type.
  • Taking his collar: It is the most terrible feeling for a Servant to lose his collar. It means he is downgraded and needs to do the most terrible and humiliating things to become Servant again.
  • More chasteness days: Double the period of sexual abstinence. Make him regret it as much as possible by walking near him naked or masturbating in front of him.
  • Having cuffs on during a day: It may be especially hard when it comes to routine stuff like cooking, cleaning, and dressing. A basement for adding more punishments.

After the punishment is done, he must get back on his knees and thank you for what you’ve done. Afterwards, he will need to ask to continue serving you.

You have several roles in a couple like this: you are his muse, teacher, mentor, and lover. You know when to listen, reign, control, and punish. And, moreover, you are a partner to love and rely on.

2018-03-29

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