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How to introduce your friends to BDSM?

How to introduce your friends to BDSM?
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A person, who has started his path in BDSM dreams of introducing the Idea to his close ones like vanilla girl/boyfriend, best friend, or a partner for one night. But how to do it right? We’ll discuss it in our short article.

Before you proceed with this idea, you need to be sure that you understand the basic notions of BDSM and can share your knowledge with a person without traumatizing one. Therefore, you need to learn more on this topic: talk with people, read articles and specialized literature.

First steps

When it comes to the Idea, there is no need to agitate it. Just tell a person about it, try to check, whether it is interesting for him/her or not. If this person comes to you, be his/her mentor in this topic. Provide one with some interesting books and lectures. Bring him (in case you are living in a megapolis) to specialized classes, where the techniques and practices are described in the smallest details.

Get your newbie acquainted with BDSM-adepts. They tend to like sharing their thoughts with a new fellow comrade. Besides, getting experience from different sources is always much better, than from a single one.

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What to read

Use your thoughts and find psychological literature, as well as the medical manuals to unfold some important things about the topic. Look at the works of Sigmund Freud, James Cantor, and Fritz Klein. Ask your friends to send an interesting book uncovering some aspect in BDSM and read it with your new friend. Make him understand that you care about his tensions.

You may also send a link to our site, as we provide you with interesting articles regarding the Ideology and practices three times a week.

Find a role

Usually it is easy to understand, which role in BDSM-play is appropriate for this particular person. Looking into person’s eyes or speaking to him for at least 30 minutes is just enough for an experienced BDSMer to understand, who’s sitting next to you. Although, if you know a person that loves being Dominant in everydays life (means, loves to control everything, be a boss to everybody in his circle of friends) doesn’t mean, he will love to be Dom in BDSM-relations.

As a conclusion

People love to understand that everything goes as planned and everybody supports them. Thankfully, our community is quite loyal to newcomers. The only rule we have is SSC and teach him/her this as the most important rule. Love each other and BDSM.

2017-08-24

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