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Introduction to Fisting. Don’t you be afraid of one’s dreams. Fisting is a pleasing practice to try.

Fisting isn’t scary

Fisting isn’t scary
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Most people consider Fisting as a terrible thing and perversion.

Actually, it isn’t that scary at all. Although hand enters vagina or anus up to the bone and it looks just impressive, but after such a show, majority of watchers closes a tab with a video and promises not to do it in real life.

So let’s define this practice and decide, why is it so tremendous and ordinary at the same time. Why do so many people know and fear it.

Vaginal fisting

This type, as it is understood from the name works only for ladies.

So why do people consider fingers and penis as the main tools of stimulation. By the way, when you put a finger or two inside the “temple”, you come to the first stage of Fisting called Fingering as finger is a part of hand.

Applying fingers to a right place is a common practice used in vanilla relationships without putting much attention to it. Start with one, two, three, and continue further. Be cautious and slow, use as much lubricant as possible.

Fisting is extreme1. Fisting is extreme

Don’t make a roleplay “Samson tears lion’s chaps apart” of it. Besides hurting your partner pretty hard you can hurt yourself. As you may get hit right in your face with her leg.

Therefore, how can we avoid it?

1) It doesn’t matter what size do you have; hygiene is the most important factor here. Hands mustn’t be just clean; they must be germproof. We recommend you to use medical gloves. If you can’t find ones, please, make sure your nails are cut to the skin and there is no dirt under them. Use antiseptic for this purpose.

2) Lubricant! Use litres of lubricant for making your session soft and easy. As there is a long variety of lubricants in sex-shop. Choose the water based types as it won’t dry out on the body for quite long.

3) Patience. Woman’s body is “made” this way that vulva could let child’s head go through it. That is why any lady can practice Fisting, so it is a matter of Top’s mastery to deliver pleasure to his woman. Just be delicate and don’t rush it.

4) Say no to jewellery. Remove rings and bracelets, as they may do some real damage to vaginal walls. You may even lose them inside. The only result for you forgetting this advice is ambulance.

Many people consider the practice the most painful one. However attentive approach leads to no bad feelings at all. Probably, Sub will only feel discomfort, when you enter her with the widest part of your palm.

Tell her to relax, as toughening muscles won’t release the pressure.

A secret desire2. A secret desire

How?

You need to cup your hands sticking your thumb to the pointer and enter vagina slowly, but steadily. As it is of flexible structure, it will soon let you in.

If a partner doesn’t feel any painful tensions, continue pressing until you have it inside up to a wrist. Halt right now, even if there is no discomfort, you need to hold your hand like that for a while.

Here we come to action. Use knuckles to touch the walls. Make no sudden movements as it is only a preparation. Than you can make a fist. If you don’t want to start first, you can order Bottom to use Kegel Exercises.

Orgasm will come unexpectedly and fast, if everything is done right. During the “Peak” her muscles will feel some powerful sensorimuscular pressure that may even make your hand slip from vagina. But “hold your ground”.

There are two main reasons for that.

- Let your Submissive feel something new and take time for enjoying the moment.

- It can be traumatizing for her, if you make an exit quickly. And yeah, unclench your fist, while doing it. Her genitals can’t stand so many challenges for the first try of the practice.

Tempting pleasure3. Tempting pleasure

You aren’t for Guinness’ book here, so don’t try to put your entire fist, during on the first day of practice. Some women need more preparation time, but the results will be rewarding.

There is no need to overcome pain, if the one exists. Postpone the session and try something different.

Anal Fisting

Anal fisting can be done with both female and male partners. Physiology didn’t make exceptions here.

What should you think about, before the start?

1) Evacuant enema! Hygiene is even more important here, than in the previous topic.

2) Hands. The same thing we’ve talked about in the first chapter.

3) Lubricant. Again, don’t be greedy about lubricant. Its lack will lead to terrible feelings for your and your partner.

Unlike vagina, anus isn’t meant for such kind of BDSM activity. Therefore, a long process of preparation awaits your couple here. Remember, there is almost no chance to put an entire fist from the very first time.

Start with butt plugs of different diameters and shapes. Make it larger as frequently as you can. When you are ready, use your fist.

Now listen to the reactions of your partner. Stop the session, if he feels anything bad. Be slow to exit anus, as it is more fragile, than vagina.

Continue with plugs, as it will let the butthole get used to the pressure.

If you don’t need to stop, repeat the steps from the previous chapter. Clench your hand and start stimulating intestinal walls with you knuckles.

Mucosa in there is thinner and less sensitive. So a partner won’t always feel the pain, but may receive a serious injury.

Anal-vaginal fisting

This is the highest level. Only the strongest and the most experienced reach this stage. Don’t you do it, unless you have at least 20 successful sessions for both “directions” with THIS ONE partner.

Instead of conclusion

Fisting is a wonderful practice. It will deliver outstanding orgasms, if you perform with respect to your partner. Although you MUST remember that this practice is just an addition to other practices. It can be done frequently, as it will deal terrible damage to Submissive’s health

Fisting isn’t a perversion.

If you can stick your fingers or penis, why can you use your whole hand?

Remember of SSC, Love each other and visit our blog for more articles on the topic of BDSM.

2018-03-29

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