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Paging – is a beautiful ritual of care and attention to the Master, and an opportunity to make his/her life more comfortable.

Page as BDSM-servant

Page as BDSM-servant
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Beginners often confuse domestic servitude with Paging. The first means hard daily duties. While the second is kind of keeping the etiquette – to serve up to Dominant a dinner, to make a cup of tea, to hold a door or, to put on/off his or her shoes and clothes.

As well as any relationships, Paging in BDSM is designed to emphasize inequality of partners in their relations, to remind a Bottom of her place. But the same action can be done with the different attitude towards partner.

This practice is used only in DS-relations and in most cases Submissive enjoys to serve and make Master's life easier, joyful and more comfortable. To give pleasure in all possible ways is the main part of Paging-and DS relations.

On the other side, it's not obligatory at all to be in DS-relations to enjoy serving the Dominant. Paging is widely used in DB format. When Bottom plays a role of servant during a session, and the rest time both partners have vanilla communication.

The Page - sounds proudly1. The Page - sounds proudly

In other words, DS isn't equal to Paging, they don't exclude each other, but aren't synonyms. There was a certain stereotype that serving is more inherent in the men. Even the name "page" means a certain gender of this role. However, among the girls there aren't less but even more fans of this fetish. The role of careful and attentive partner is more inherent in women. It is possible to say that this kind of fetish is preferred by an old-fashioned people.

What is to be done?

If you don't know what page has to do, you may just have no tendency to serve. As a rule, usual or vanilla upbringing and internal needs tells us what to do. If there is desire to care about Top, need to serve appears. For example, when you help to put on or take off clothes, carefully put footwear or accessories in order, to serve something, to bring, to hold something if it's necessary.

There are some page's duties to do:

  • To help in bathroom – to fill a bath, to wash up, wipe, serve bathing accessories, to make manicure, pedicure, make-up, and hairstyle.
  • Make feet or body massage.
  • Prepare a bed before sleep and make it in the morning.
  • Serve coffee into bed, serve up breakfast, dinner, or whatever Top orders. Lay the table and be close to him during a meal.
  • At home or at the familiar public, carry behind your Master a glass of alcohol, tea or, an ashtray and other necessary items. Watch the ashtray to be clean, and the glass filled.
  • If Top wishes something that isn't present in the house, it is necessary to suggest going to a shop.
  • To hold a door, passing Top forward, and to carry his bags. Remember, it is bad to force her to bear heavy bags. But she can be ordered to bear something light and not essential stuff.
  • To carry out a role of a furniture: a stool, a candlestick, etc.
  • In public places (if it is discussed and dealt) to open a door or a car door, to take care of clothes, etc.

Page, not a slave2. Page, not a slave

This list can be continued endlessly. The main thing is to know tastes, habits and requirements of your Top and try to foresee his\her desires before you hear the order.

Nevertheless, Paging is long and capacious process of training. During such communication, partners get to know each other much better. It is possible to play this game infinitely. Good page is quick to understand Master's gesture or even a look. Couple makes the ritual of Paging, in which Bottom expresses all the love and care to the Top.

What shouldn't be done?

  • Paging requires high attention to Top. Not everyone can do this. Perhaps, the similar attention and guardianship can seem to be too importunate. Especially in the beginning of communication.
  • Page is not only a provident servant, but she is also well-mannered and patient Bottom. Sometimes it's better to wait for the direct order, than try to give everything at once. Especially when it wasn't asked. Make sure that it is really appropriate.
  • Don't turn Top into a certain deity.
  • Master is not God, he is just human being. It is pleasant for him to see the care of another person, but not a robot with a set of functions.
2018-03-29

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