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Newbie-Submissives, remember! No one will ever tame you! It isn’t right place for that.

Taming of the Shrew

Taming of the Shrew
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Vanilla has great influence on BDSM-relationships. Cliché and stereotypes come from a common world into our sado-masochistic relations. As it is between men and women, some “features” don’t differ.

The key-question is that a woman chooses the role of Submissive, who wants to serve her Master.

Unfortunately, newbies-Submissives want to show insubordination and strength. They want Dominants to fight for them and conquer their hearts. They feel, they will look much better than the usual Bottom-ladies. They think that the nature of men will work here. Man needs to hunt one’s prey first.

It isn’t true BDSM-relations. Such Submissive doesn’t want to follow the rules and give herself to his will. She capitulates to a Dominant for some time and believes that she has as much power in their couple as he has. That she can take her decisions, have as much freedom as she wants, and play “Slave” whenever she wants. She challenges her partner with “Whether he is worthy or not”-stuff. And you know that doesn’t work this way.

It is all about obediance

It is all about obediance

If, in some cases, Top allows her to behave like that it leads to disappointment. Bottom doesn’t want to obey such Master, and Master loses power in a couple and in BDSM-community as the time passes. Besides, no Dominants will want to get a mischievous Sub.

Sometimes it is due a lack of experience and issues with understanding notions of BDSM. In other cases, a woman that came to BDSM understands, she isn’t ready to such relations or didn’t find “the One”.

Yeah, that may find attention of Master and attract him for some time, but it won’t work on a long-time run.

Manipulations of these kind look similar to playing with marked cards. You can win several times, but you know that it won’t end well. How long will you be successful in this game is a hard question. And the answer is based only on luck.

Sub must understand her role, be honest and trust her Master. That is how you maintain true BDSM-relationships. Challenging and easy at the same time.

If you still think that you are “a fortress” to be conquered, think about your participation in BDSM-society and understanding the idea of it.

2018-03-29

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