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A manual that helps for those. who to play with wax, but don’t know what to start with.

Waxen Resemblance

Waxen Resemblance
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Wax play is probably #2 in top three practices in BDSM that go beyond our ideology right to vanilla couples. It is only bondage that wins in that fight.

There are millions of erotic photos on that topic of BDSM. Lots of beautiful feminine bodies covered in wax. Such photos are tempting and deliver sexual arousal to both men and women.

However it is a common practice of BDSM and it may be dangerous. Even more hazardous than you can imagine. If you don’t want to hurt yourself and get burns, read our article before coming to action.

1) Surface

The first question is to decide, where your partner will lie. Wax leaves droplets that aren’t rubbed off easily. Put another bed sheet on the first one to get rid of it, in case you aren’t able to clean it.

Wax play – melting pleasure1. Wax play – melting pleasure

2) Temperature

Composition of candles are different, so the pouring point varies. For example, stearin, which is added in most of them. Its pouring point is 60 C.

How to understand, what is percentage of stearin in a glim in your hands. Use your nails, if it is hard to make a mark on it, the percent is high. We don’t recommend you to use it.

Bee’s wax has high pouring point too (over 60 C). Besides, bee wax is also inflammable. If a burning drop touches body, it may leave a terrible thermal injury. Therefore, it isn’t the situation where natural product isn’t the best solution.

Gel candles shouldn’t be used in sexual play.

Wax temperature is important, but it isn’t a paramount factor. Hot water will dry out soon enough, where wax will save its thermal influence.

If your Submissive is fair-skinned, experienced Dominants don’t suggest you use candles with melt temperature over 42 C, as they may leave ugly marks on skin. If your skin is swarthy, use candles that melt with maximum of 50 C. High pain threshold and thick skin may let you use various items.

3) Allergic disease
Now you can find an infinite number of candles of different shapes, colors and odor. Bright-colored item has high risk of causing allergic reactions. Scout out, whether a partner has allergy. Even if he doesn’t know anything about it, buy scentless candle.

Wax play – love in every drop2. Wax play – love in every drop

If you want to leave colorful marks, use special candles that are usually sold in sex-shops. They contain food coloring instead of other types. As they won’t hurt epidermis.

4) Hair

In case you don’t combine wax with SM-practice of epilation, get rid of hair precedingly. As it is quite painful experience to take wax from hair after session.

5) Height

You can adjust thermal effect by lifting candle higher above the body of Submissive. Each drop gets colder by travelling longer. If you are an experienced couple and want to get to an “advanced” level – get it lower. This way, drops won’t be able to cool down.

At first, lift it as high as you can and then lower it slowly. Attention, the minimum height is 20-30 cm.

6) Erogenous zones

Frequently, Top forgets about the zones with a big number of nerve-endings and so – more sensitive. These are, in most cases, nipples, belly-button, and crotch. Dominants use them as first target locations.

Get her body used to high temperature. Afterwards, do whatever you BOTH want. The keyword here is “both”. Therefore, communicate and share your feelings any time you need.

7) Drawing

Wax-play presume not only candles. Melt them and use brushes to create a painting from your Bottom. Her body is your canvas. The thicker is brush, the hotter is wax on it (due to the amount of it).

Wax play – body canvas3. Wax play – body canvas

8) Pouring

You can spill paint on a body of your Bottom. Use whole body to color it with centimeters of colorings. Use wax with lesser melting temperature for the most intimate parts of her.

The more you pour, the more she is going to feel. It isn’t drops, so the thermal effect will be much more intensive.

Which ones to buy?

You have read a lot of information and now you have thoughts about what to use. Start with the most common ones – scentless and colorless. If you want to add something extraordinary, go to sex-shop, and talk to consultant in there. Try it on your wrist to check the temperature.

As a conclusion, we want to remind you of SSC. Any practice requires preparation and skill. So be attentive and careful, if you want to bring pleasure, not pain.

2018-03-29

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