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Submissive wanted

The question of finding good partner in both vanilla and BDSM never loses its weight. The problems occur on each stage of it. We hope these recommendations will help you to succeed in a great challenge of each Top. Which is acquiring perfect Bottom!

The first question in this case is “Where?”

1) On the Internet

The easiest way to find your Bottom is to find her on the Internet. Communication within social media specialized in BDSM relationships is the best helper in this question. You will know that the whole site is dedicated to BDSM and there will only be people, who share your ideas.

As soon as you find a proper person and have some small talk you can invite him for dinner to a cafeteria or restaurant. You will have total mark of a person, only after you meet him in real life.


Submissive wanted: devotion1. Submissive wanted: devotion

2) Among vanillas

Finding Submissive in a crowd of vanilla girls proves to be a real challenge. Not only because they don’t have special badges telling, who is Bottom and who is not. It is due to the fact that the chokers and other BDSM attributes are becoming more and more popular now within vanilla community. It is a trend, so don’t try to differentiate between these types of women based on the accessories.

Even if you have great intuition and you found “right” collar, who says that this lady doesn’t have her own Master?

Therefore, we see a good option here. Find a cute girl and teach her how to be your Sub. However, not everybody will become Submissive. It depends on you, whether you are able to convince woman, showing the best practices and carefully listening to her or not. Put it lightly and show the power of BDSM and the sensations it brings. Don’t hurt her or break her in a psychological way.

3) On BDSM meetings.

Here you may be 100% sure about the person next to you that

  • She loves BDSM
  • You can ask her about specific things, like favorite practice or devices

Go to such meetings from time to time and your chances of getting a perfect Sub will grow.

When we’ve answered the “Where?” question it is time for us to handle the next one. Namely, “How?”.

If we speak about specialized sources (social media and etc.) we can clearly see, what is the positioning and the marital status. They are usually shown in the profiles. Or you can ask them yourself.

However, the chances of finding young woman, who will be free Bottom with same fetishes are too small. It happens quite rarely.

But the keywords are “IT HAPPENS”. Therefore, be stubborn and continue searching. Who knows, maybe a colleague, vanilla friend or a former classmate will turn out to be an experienced Submissive.

Another piece of advice is about your attentiveness. A perfect hunter must use his sensors at 100%. Look at the accessories, a person wears. Rings, necklaces and earrings may tell you more than you think.

Besides, listen to what she’s saying, because she may mention some terms that aren’t used in the vocabularies of Vanilla girls.

If you can’t help the feeling that you fall in love with the particular girl. Ask her tenderly, but be delicate, wrong word or question can transform you into a sick pervert.

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Don’t you worry, if the whole process takes much time and you are thinking about giving up. Nothing worthy may come to you easily. Don’t try to catch the first girl you meet just because she’s a girl, who accepted your invitation.

Communicate, observe and analyze that is how you get a perfect Submissive-lady. Maybe, she has been close to you for years, but she didn’t agitate her sexual preferences.

Don’t lose faith and you will understand that the whole path of finding the Woman of your life was worth it.

2018-03-29

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10 months ago

What about submissive Male? Hey!