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Handcuff sex - cliché or way of life?

Handcuff sex - cliché or way of life?
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Handcuff sex - cliché or way of life?

Handcuff sex proves to be the most popular experiment in bed that is widespread not only in BDSM.

Handcuffs play more tremendous role than considered. This attribute widens the sexual roleplay of vanilla couples. BDSM uses it as an article of daily necessity.

This BDSM-device is commonly used in vanilla couples. It is a starting point for such couples to get interested in BDSM culture. However, for a majority of them, it is the ending point too. Sometimes, rich imagination leads to experiencing newer and more brutal practices in a bed play. Sexologists say that using cuffs delivers sexual tension to both partners, even if there wasn’t any temptation before the coition.

Handcuffs – steel thraldom1. Handcuffs – steel thraldom

Handcuffs are fetish. Just imagine the act from both sides. The feeling of cold steel next to the skin and understanding of own helplessness from one side. And, on contrary, total power and domination over a person. Mix it up and you will have a tremendous effect. Play a scene, where the entire process of clapping the handcuffs is done in erotic way. Push your partner next to a wall or a headboard, pull her hands and then do up the handcuffs. Remember, they must be fit tight, but without bringing discomfort.

As a Submissive (or just the person in snitches, if we talk about vanillas), take your time and feel an intensive feeling of weakness growing in your mind. Dominant or the person, who does handcuffs up, mustn’t show aggression or anger, even if the whole picture of a helpless naked body lose one’s mind.

If you are Top, be attentive and listen to your partner. Probably, she will ask you to do it harder herself.

You should also be careful while removing wristbands. It is important in two cases: physiological and psychological. The first one works, when a person will feel blood filling her veins and mobility returning to her limbs. From the psychological approach, by releasing your “slave” slowly, you allow her to feel true freedom.

In addition to shackles, ropes, belts, scarves, leather and cloth handcuffs are commonly used in BDSM. You can find a wide range of such devices of different shapes, colors and materials.

Handcuffs – cold steel, hot night2.Handcuffs – cold steel, hot night

Some handcuffs are opened with a key. Therefore, before starting the roleplay, put the keys on a shelf or a table, where you won’t lose them out of your sight. The history knows couples, which broke their keys and had no other option but to call 911.

However, this type is much better in immobilizing your partner and further psychological pressure, where the slave won’t be able to free himself.

In BDSM, there is a steel bondage fetish, in which handcuffs play a tremendous role. They can be of different types, configurations, different widths and thicknesses, with a long chain or strut. You can meet collectors, who find the most extraordinary and rare devices and buy them wherever they can.

Some couples can’t imagine their sexual life without restraint. They don’t feel anything without good faithful wristbands.

Which cuffs should you choose and how much to use them depends only on the mood of a couple. It is a habitude like smoking, so be careful and don’t dive in it fortoo much.

2018-03-29

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