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A short essay for beginners who want to discover the world of bondage, but do not know where to start.

Tie me up!

Tie me up!
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It occurs to every woman at least once in a lifetime!


Unfortunately, only few dare to tell their partner about own fantasies. The embarrassment, fear of not being understood, narrow-mindedness, and complexes are the barriers for many to get totally satisfied in bed. The fear to appear a pervert deprives us of experiencing vivid emotions. Maybe it's time to admit to yourself and your partner that binding turns you on? This is completely normal, classic fantasy, which can bring new colors to intimate relationships.
Let’s look at this in more details.
There are practically no contraindications to bondage games, if you do everything right. Therefore, before binding your partner, read this article.


Such bondage games are advised to women who can hardly reach orgasm. Helplessness and insecurity that a woman feels during binding, helps her to feel it in brighter colors. She stops controlling the process and let herself loose. The most vivid emotions will be experienced if she is blindfolded at the same time.
Here are some tips on tying a partner without risk of injuries.
The most popular way is to tie the partner to the headboard. Don’t try to tie a partner with stockings or pantyhose as it is shown in Hollywood movies. Nylon tightens quickly, so it is almost impossible to untie, and there is a big risk to hurt your loved one’s wrists. It is better to use a silk scarf or a belt. Using a special bondage tape from the sex shop is the best option.
If you have a bed without a headboard or a sofa, then tying hands together and putting them behind the head or tying them behind the back will be enough. As an option - you can tie a girl to an armchair or a massive chair. Several points should be considered – it should be comfortable and stable. You can use a chair with wooden or stone seat to spice things up. Many girls admitted that sitting on the cool surface naked turns them on.

Tie me tighter

1. Tie me tighter


The next option is way more complicated. There you’ll need to tie not only hands, but also the legs. They can be tied together, or spread and fixed to the edges of the bed. In this position your partner will be helpless and fully uncovered. With the blindfold all sensations will be pushed to the limit. Remember, this posture seems simple, but in fact it is not. Back, arms and legs will become numb, so try not to keep your beloved in this position for too long. Be ready to unleash her at a word. Don’t forget to always keep something sharp at hand. It’s better to use scissors - they will allow you to cut the ropes quickly without hurting partner’s skin.
You can also bind your partner standing. For example, tie her hands and throw the rope over the door, fixing it on its handle. Close the door then. The girl will have some opportunity to maneuver in this position, but will still be limited in her abilities.
In general, such simple poses and methods will do just great for the first BDSM-session. But if you want to make it more diverse, learn Shibari. This is the Japanese art of erotic binding. It requires much more skill, preparation and observance of safety measures. We'll explore it together on KinkyGalaxy soon.

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2018-03-29

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10 months ago

Great to read thanks