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This article is dedicated for those who wants to learn more about slavery in BDSM. The article deals with the rules of conduct Slave and Master and taboo in the presented role-playing game.

Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners

Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners
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Slavery is a system of relationships that allows a person (the slave) to be owned by another person (master, slave owner).

Term «slavery» origins from the beginning of time. It is also known that slavery was abolished in the 19th century.

In BDSM relationships the roles of Master and Slave are quite widespread. There are people who can’t imagine life without service to a single person. For them, the main pleasure is to bring joy to a Master, serve, and please him in all possible ways.

Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: sweet slavery.1. Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: sweet slavery.

The relationship between Master and Slave is first and foremost a relationship between two people who consensually have chosen these roles. And like any other they need equal attention and impact in from both partners. Also, these relationships require responsibility from both sides. The servant or slave mustn’t touch the Master until the first has a collar on his/her neck. Master and Slave make their own destinies and they are happy with ones.

Don`t assume that it is all about wearing collar, when Submissive just surrenders to the power of Master. A good Slave is the first mate and the right hand of his Top. He is obliged to send all physical and psychological powers to the Master. This is the rule to take all necessary measures to make your loved one feel comfortable.

From the moment when the slave receives a collar, all his thoughts, abilities and skills become the property of his/her Master. A slave is valuable due to the benefits that he brings with one’s service and not because of the status itself. Good slave, whether it is male or female, is the active slave, but always knows when enough is enough. Both the excessive zeal and humble passivity can be frustrating for Dominant. And that's one thing a slave must learn – he must know his Top well.


Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: Voluntary confinement.

2. Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: Voluntary confinement.


A slave should explore the nature, interests, habits, tastes and preferences of a Dominant. He should have thorough knowledge of the things that deliver pleasure to the Master, and which ones don’t. What cheers him up and what annoys him. He won't sit and wait until the question will be answered by itself. A good slave will try to learn the Master by any means – asking, watching, and analyzing. Sometimes a good servant knows his Master much better than the last one himself. However, this does not mean that the slave can shamelessly invade the privacy of the Master and be pestilent.

Another important point in the service of a slave is to please his Master. A slave must be able to anticipate the desires of Top. Otherwise, if the Master will get what he wants after own orders, he is unlikely to feel comfortable, so such slave won’t be able to fully satisfy him.

Relationships can’t exist without communication. It doesn’t matter how different are the Master and Slave. Firstly, it is the relationship of two loving people. Communication in this tandem should bring joy to both sides. Master’s speech must be an instrument of education, training, and entertainment. Don’t forget about etiquette though. And a slave need to remember of his or her status always.

The style of communication as well as a set of mandatory rituals, addresses, and greetings are unique and created in the in-couple environment.

But there are some common points, which, in one way or another, are present in all Top-Bottom relationships.

Appeal to the Master, in most cases, begins with the words “Master” or “Lord” (at the discretion of Top).

Before doing something slave must ask a permission.

Touching the Master without permission or specific order is unacceptable behavior.

The same is considered regarding direct look in the eyes of Master.

Before asking any question slave must get permission to ask and thank Master for the answer.

There is a huge amount of nuances of all kinds that shapes the relationship of Master and Slave. There is no need to identify and focus attention on them.

Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: devotion and subservience3. Bdsm slavery - recommendations for beginners: devotion and subservience

Just remember: your slave is not just a submissive puppet that will fulfill any dream of yours, but a living and loving person, who has devoted his life, time, and attention to you and your pleasure.

And the Bottom, at the same time, must take in mind that his Master is quite an ordinary man, not the evil Ogre that wants to punish poor Slave for the smallest failure. The master cares for his slave, and takes on a huge responsibility for his life.

Slavery, in the sense we've accustomed to, is no more. Now this is a game for mutual pleasure and it must bring joy to both partners.

2018-03-29

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